3 Tips If You've Been Turkey Dropped This Thanksgiving


Gabriel Garcia Marengo

Thanksgiving is almost here and although the holidays represent joy and appreciation, this is also a big season for breakups. There's even a name for breakups that happen around Thanksgiving: the turkey drop. 

And it's easy to understand why breakups might happen more often during the holidays. As wonderful as they are, Thanksgiving and the winter holidays can also be sources of added pressure and stress. 

So if you find yourself in this situation, you are certainly not alone. Plus, there are many ways that you can still make this Thanksgiving a positive one. Here are some tips and advice that should help you along the way.

1. Think about the true meaning of Thanksgiving

While you may feel sad, try to keep in mind that Thanksgiving is about being grateful for what you have. Connect with friends and family on a deeper level this year. Be sure to make time for those friends and family. They are the ones who will ultimately help you through this hard time.  Make them feel special, heard, loved and understood. 

2. Create a new Thanksgiving ritual

You may be tempted to compare this year to previous ones with your ex. Those memories are to be honored, but right now, focus your attention on creating something meaning that feels special, nurturing and joyful to you. What can you do differently this year to mark a new memory? Perhaps host a get together with your close friends, volunteer, or set new positive intentions for yourself. Try something new that represents you embracing a new chapter.

3. Find a new hobby

Even though Thanksgiving is just one day, it can allow you an opportunity to try out a new hobby even before New Years. Start early! Maybe it's learning a new language, trying a new sport, or immersing yourself in a subject that fascinates you. There are so many free resources that you can delve into if you’re not sure where to start. Keep in mind that participating in actives where you can connect with others can distract you from your breakup in a positive way. Think about what inspires you and go from there!

Although it may feel hard right now, this is a wonderful opportunity to bring the focus back to yourself and those around you. 

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