Love Is Like A Plant Episode: How To Love Someone And Not Lose Yourself


By Elle Huerta

I am so excited to share the first full-length episode of Love is like a plant, my podcast with Sarah May B. 

This week's episode is called Together but Alone: How to Love Someone but Not Lose Yourself and this is a topic that is so important to me!

You can listen to it on iTunes or on Soundcloud. If you like it, let us know by giving it a 5 star review and subscribe to get future episodes. That would mean the world to us.

Some of my favorite moments from our conversation were when we talked about...

Why we think it's important to maintain a sense of self when you are in a relationship

How to make sure you're feeding your individual interests

The ways we personally take of ourselves when we're in relationships

What to do when the person you're with needs more or less alone time than you

What we think are the two most important things in a relationship

I hope you enjoy it. We'd love to hear from you too: do you agree with us? do you disagree with us? how do you not lose yourself in a relationship? Email us at and we'll feature you in a future episode!

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Elle Huerta

Elle is the CEO and founder of Mend. To see her updates and photos of her rescue pup, follow her on Instagram @ellenhuerta.

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